Monday, March 8, 2010

哀莫大于心死

又听说有一位老友要退出江湖,她本来已签了58岁退休的条约,怎知56岁未到却急不及待地要退出,可见这行业的路越来越崎岖了!都说咯,当你不能改变别人时,不如改变自己,再不能改变自己时,只好选择放弃!这半年来,已有三位前同事宣布放弃。有个大学资格的N君,月薪约八千零吉都退出来,宁愿拿它三千多零吉的退休金!想不到的是:他们会像逃难似地退出,曾何几时,他们都是尽责,敬业乐业的好老师。我说,既然已不能适应行业,早退出也好,以免误人误己;苦海无边,回头是岸呀!反观自己,已经上岸了,又跳回去,这叫做自讨苦吃!当一个人的心已死,能及时退位让贤,也算是功德吧!
祝姐妹们妇女节快乐!

38 comments:

人生不过如此-沈兴 said...

该退时还是得退,人生无常,是时候享福的时光。
祝妳妇女节快快乐乐。

cindy said...

哈哈,今天被沈兴抢先了。。。
ypy,他们退下,会不会另有原因?
Anyway,人到无求品自高。。。
祝你三八快乐!

丽莲~流金岁月 said...

“有人辞官归故里,有人漏夜赶科场”,来来去去~不必在意。欢喜就好。

Yi Pian Yun said...

沈兴,
我是长辈,应该可以直呼你的名字吧,会认为我粗鲁吗?哈!对人生无常,最怕就是老时病来攻!谁不会享福,也要看命水呀!谢谢留言!

Yi Pian Yun said...

Cindy,
真是人生无常,和我一起教补习的,( 我教科学,他教数学)已病倒了! 老了最怕病来攻!A中的老师,Ching认识的!
他们退下的原因多数是因为学生败坏的纪律,不愿受苦!

Yi Pian Yun said...

丽莲,
活在杏坛的我们,大有“你苦哪有我苦”的感觉(除了一些自欺欺人外),对着他们,不能打,不能骂,连看一下都不能,教我们如何是好?只好:退下,退下,退下。。。咯!

验光师 said...

如果有计划的退休,生活可以很精彩,不然,退下来没事做,会很闷咯!

Ching said...

人到中年,身体就很容易出状况,特别是在工作压力下。我听说N中也有老师想提早退休。不懂是和工作压力有关,还是健康问题?

Yi Pian Yun said...

验光师,
对, 退下来没事做会患忧郁症的。有人说,退下后,如果没事做,不出三年就会咚咚呛了,哈哈!

Yi Pian Yun said...

Ching,
说得也是,压力会带来健康问题,有健康问题的也受不了压力!

cindy said...

YPY,教数学补习?谁呀?补习比正课难教?
是不是Chow?

Ching, 我搞定了,thank you. 还有很多东西学呢。慢慢来。忙死了!

人生不过如此-沈兴 said...

妳是我的长辈,这是理所当然。那我又是否可以称呼妳为姐姐呢?妳是否会嫌弃我呢?
人生不过短短几十年,及时行乐,知足常乐,这才是快乐人生的真谛。
祝福妳快乐在每一天。

Jessie said...

对,知足常乐乃快乐的泉源!路不转,人转,方向一转又是另一番景色,何苦把自己困在框框里。

Yi Pian Yun said...

沈兴,
好啊,就叫我大姐吧,许多人都是那样称呼我,哈!请问要给个红包你吗?

Yi Pian Yun said...

Jessie,
以前是为别人而活,现在要做回自己,最要紧要开心地活着!

人生不过如此-沈兴 said...

大姐,早上好。妳好。
现在年已刚过,我也不贪心。要红包也要有所表现,就看看我今年的表现好了。希望明年会有吧!再说,如果今年我结了婚,那妳就可以省省下来你的红包。哈哈哈!
祝妳有个美好的一天。加油!

cindy said...

大姐,我发现沈先生很喜欢。。。红包呢。。。不知是我的错觉吗?^_^

Yi Pian Yun said...

Cindy,
是咩?怎么我那么后知后觉?
沈兴,
那你要快马加鞭咯,省了新年红包,等我这大姐喝你的喜酒时包个更大的红包,做大姐的还要买金器做贺礼呢!哈哈!

人生不过如此-沈兴 said...

大姐,早上好。妳好。
随缘好了。不是我的,我从不强求,强求而来的不会有幸福。做人,最重要的是,自己开心就是最好。不强人所难。大姐,保重!
祝妳有个开心的一天,加油!

有情 said...

人不可貌相。。。。

Yi Pian Yun said...

有情,
Dunno what u mean wor.
谁说人不可貌相?我pandai貌相咯。先看他的嘴巴,如果他讲话时嘴巴歪来歪去,肯定不是好东西。你没看到咩?那个歪嘴巴的,不是成事不足,败事有余吗?哈哈!
还有还有那个厚嘴唇又有点翘的,一看就知道是人渣,结果。。。。。,?(哇咔咔)

人生不过如此-沈兴 said...

有情,妳好。大姐个版位。谢了。
海水那可用斗量!交友是交心,而不是看相。如果看相会准,那看相佬应该先看自己的相,从此不必出来找吃,早已成龙,而不是落得街边帮人看相。再说,相命佬问我要算命吗?我叫他先算自己下三分钟,他自己会发生什么事,在不走,我和他说,下三分钟,就是他倒地的时刻,不信,他就试试看!

Raymond said...

BIG CORRUPT LADY MINISTER OF TOURISM MALAYSIA DATO SRI NG YEN YEN

This is a true story regarding our Minister of Tourism Dato Sri Ng Yen Yen (NYY).

The Ministry of Tourism Malaysia have a budget for “Media Campaign” to promote Malaysia on tourism. This budget is called in the Ministry as Media Global Fund. The previous Minister of Tourism Dato Azalina which set up a company that was given a contract to handle the Minister of Tourism's advertising for her own benefit. The same tactic is now use by NYY. She joint venture with one company called Sen Media Sdn. Bhd. and instruct other media to join this company to get contract.

The Managing Director of this company is Ruzi bin Ahmad who is also NYY’s son good friend. NYY’s son met media owners like BBC, STARTV, CNBC, ESPN, National Geographic, Phoenix HK, and Discovery Channel to negotiate and asked for 30% commission. The total budget for this campaign is RM 33 Million, and NYY’s son seeks a total commission around RM 10 Million from them.

~~ Malaysia New Kid On Blog

走过岁月 said...

做人开心点,快乐点,

Yi Pian Yun said...

Raymond,
She has dy denied and going to lodge a police report 4 ruining her reputation.
岁月,
对,开心就好!我一直在寻找适合自己的工作环境,以期待自己能胜任愉快!明天起,又换个新环境了,还不祝我好运?哈!

走过岁月 said...

祝老师好运,找到好工作。

Jessie said...

天生我才必有用,何况你得上天眷顾,运气永远追随你。。。祝工作愉快。

日落西山 said...

ypy老师,
学生纪律的败坏,综合起来原因很复杂,看似改变不了了。如果经验丰富者如你们都没有头绪如何面对,那么新一代的老师应该怎样坚持下去呢?

Jack2 said...

新一代/年轻的老师?????
误人子弟啦!

Yi Pian Yun said...

日落西山,
听见了没有?Jack2也是年轻的老师都认了,我们这些食古不化的才活得那么痛苦!

cindy said...

YPY,

还好我很少有这种问题。。。
软硬兼施,又哄又骗,呵呵。。。
so far so good....

也有可能是因为我跟他们很friend吧。
督学曾说过要跟他们做朋友(尤其是另类的),融入他们的世界就好办事了。。。

不过我可是公私分明的,该认真时是哼哼的哟。。。

加油哟!

Yi Pian Yun said...

Cindy,
不要忘了你是在职的,有纪律部门,辅导部门做你的后台,我们有苦自己当的!
做friend? 那还不容易?好像CK那边的,还不是跟他们做friend?结果是成绩一败涂地!我自认过不了自己的这一关!
你们教语文的,没有固定的课程纲要,可以“苟且偷生”,但是科学的纲要,每一课都是互相关联的,做了friend之后,不必教书咩?那是行不通的!
我已从老师降级为教书匠了,毕竟这些家长付了钱后就是要我教书的,现在我唯一要学习的就是阿Q精神,能把自己当成是最受欢迎的教育工作者!阿弥陀佛!

Jack2 said...

Kong Cho Ha False Claims

This is a true story happening in MCA. In the year 2002, MACC then ACA, received complain regarding MP’s from BN, PAS, DAP and PKR doing false claim. One of the MP is Kong Cho Ha. In 2003, MACC start investigation regarding false claim for “tuntutan perjalanan” involving RM 10,000.00 monthly. Please check MACC report 99/2003. From the investigation, MACC discovered that Kong Cho Ha had conducted false claims and be recommended to be charged in court under Section 11(c) of the Anti- Corruption Act 1997. Detail fact of this will be out soon. As then MCA president, Ong Ka Ting also wanted Kong Cho Ha to be charged but why MACC still delay up till today?

Jack2 said...

Malaysia New Kid On Blog:
Kong Cho Ha False Claims

有情 said...

哇,你的Sitiawan老大还不错呢!

Yi Pian Yun said...

有情,
你又来揶揄我了啊?福州人喔,哈哈哈!说好说坏,他是我的同乡兼前同事,没话说,福州人就是讲义气的,哇咔咔!

Kenneth said...

So many students these days obtain a string of A's in public examinations. And yet, most people who were in school, say 30 years ago, can recall how difficult it was in those days to obtain an ‘A’ for any subject in the study syllabus.

Any comments?

Yi Pian Yun said...

Kenneth,
Yes,I fully agree with you.So easy to get As nowadays,but sad to say their standard is damn low.One of the straight As scorer went 4 an interview 4 scholarship ,when he was asked , " Are u a straight As scorer ? ",his answer is " yes, I is." the interviewer nearly fainted.Unless they speak English at home, I dont think they can speak proper English even though they score A+ in English!