Thursday, April 9, 2009

福州人真棒

根据光明日报今天的报导(A8),霹雳乃是福州人天下。内容焦点如下:在民联执政霹雳州期间的十名行政议员里头,华裔占六人,当中福州人占了四人,比例是三分二;如今换上国阵唯一的华裔行政议员马汉顺也是福州人。民联四名福州籍贯的行政议员计有倪可汉,倪可敏,苏建祥和戴成银,他们皆来自曼绒縣。众所皆知。曼绒縣福州人活跃于我国政坛,红土坎国会议员拿督江作汉就是其中代表性人物,他目前在内阁当任部长。还有,前马华总会长林良实,前马华总秘书陈祖排,前马华署理总会长何文汉都是福州人。
福州人都是刻苦耐劳的一族,有非常强的毅力。他们都很节俭,有些过度节俭而成了吝啬鬼,守财奴!印象中,老一辈的福州人都是日夜不停地在芭场工作(自己的芭)不要小看他们年纪大大,个个像条龙,千省万省,一有钱就买芭。30年前,A中附近的新村屋子都是破破烂烂的,有个同乡告诉那些外坡来的同事说:“不要小看他们的屋子破破烂烂的,屋里到处都是钱咩!”真是听傻了那些外坡来的同事们,哈哈!当时,我的老屋主去了一趟彭亨州卖树胶片回来时,他的钱是装在麻袋里带回来的,我也看傻了眼!
福州人很注重教育,自己再苦也不苦教育,因此有许多家长会卖芭地让孩子出国留学。早期,曼绒就孕育了许多教师,分布到全马各地去。(父亲也是教师,被派到宜力执教)
回想当年,老一辈的人要娶媳妇时,都是要娶能干的女孩,最好是“ a zuo meh xie ”(会做不会吃的),这是他们的口头溜。可怜我这“a xie meh zuo”(会吃不会做)的没有人感娶我,哈哈哈!有个前同事(外坡人)mo zai si,嫁了个福州人,怎知那老公竟然说她: “I marry you not to eat and sleep.” 话意是,不会做芭,也要去教补习!结果以离婚收场。另外一个老友,嫁了多芭的丈夫,放学后,除了做家务,还要开可可果实,再晒可可,做到有日没有夜。我问她何苦呢,她回答说那两老(家翁,家婆)都在做,难道她敢翘脚啊?一个女人如果没本事,在夫家是抬不起头来的,好像我那三妹,没有一技之长,被家婆欺负了几十年,好彩母凭子贵,生了两个专业儿子(一个是马大即将毕业的医生),近来才有本钱反驳她的无理取闹!

值得一提的是:可汉,可敏是我的堂侄儿(父亲是我堂兄),江部长也曾与我同事过( 70年代),虽然我没教过汉顺,但也是A中的学生,Jack2,Loo, 你说我该gilek吗咯?都说咯,A中好风水,竟然出了几位代表性的人物!

35 comments:

Loo said...

福州人,尤其是来自曼绒縣的那一群,都是刻苦耐劳的,有非常强的毅力。
你有这样的堂侄儿,同事,当然该gilek咯!

释迦 said...

恭喜恭喜。。。。
其实我也沾到一点光,
因为我是“福”建人。。。
而且还是霹雳“州”人。。哈!

Catherine said...

现在不同了,有钱了也要命啊。

丽韵 said...

a zuo meh xie = 会做不会吃
a xie meh zuo = 会吃不会做

哈哈,不错呀,学了两句福州话!

丽韵 said...

释迦,

那你也可以gilek,gilek咯,哈哈!

Jack2 said...

过度节俭就变成了吝啬!守财奴注定是不会理财的。他们往往只会把钱存起来而不去消费,这岂不是跟没有钱毫无分别吗?

Loo said...

再穷也不能穷教育咯!

Kenneth said...

"I marry you not to eat and sleep"!
Haha, that's a interesting statement.

I once heard from a friend that when a Hock Chew girl marries, her husband will receive a 'dowry' in the form of rubber lands from his parents-in-law.
Is this still a common practice? That is wonderful. It is a windfall!

Kenneth said...

Sorry, (an) interesting statement.

It seems that the land in 曼绒縣 is now worth a fortune. 有钱买不到芭。。

Jack2 said...

福州人,不得了!
应该向他们学习。。。

望阳 said...

不会做芭,也要去教补习?结果以离婚收场。
悲惨的结局。。。

Yi Pian Yun said...

Loo
, 你说会gilek我就gilek咯!哈哈!
释迦, 福州就在福建省?
Catherine,
现代的福州人除了爱钱也爱命了。他们都舍得出国兜风了啊!哪像以前的爱财多过爱命?
丽韵,
第一句福州话你应该学“卡溜” (玩耍),做not ?
Jack2,
你要学习福州人的毅力还是理财?
Kenneth,
Hereis another more interesting statement:
"If not because of your govt. loan,you think I want to marry you?You are neither young nor pretty nor rich!" he told the wife. The wife later left the merciless man with a broken heart.
I am not too sure if the practice is still on or not.But if they have land, daughter will be given a share.Yes, 有钱买不到芭了,太贵了!只要有三几衣格芭就是百万富翁了。Nowadays they start to buy lands from Upper Perak like Grik , Lenggong,parit, Manong etc , the land there is very much cheaper than Manjung"s one, you see how intelligent are these Hockchew ?

Yi Pian Yun said...

望阳,
谢谢你的登入,那的确是悲惨的结局!

Jack2 said...

福州人有长远眼光,他们想到了将来。

Kenneth said...

What has government loan to do with marriage? You mean to say that Hockchew men are mostly money-conscious?

Catherine said...

三几依格芭就是百万富翁了?
听说还有燕窝呢。。。

望阳 said...

一个人没有毅力,将一事无成, 永远都不可能取得成功。
寻梦的人,你也真棒呢!
加油!

Yi Pian Yun said...

Dear Kenneth,
As far as I know, most ( but not all) are money conscious!He married her cos of her govt. loan!!May be I am not lucky enough, most of the men I met before I married were money conscious! When I hint to them that i wanna manage my own money, they just left me without giving me any notice,hahaha!Even my husband, I told him also I wanna manage own money and also myself was too old ( that time d 40years old)to bear him any children, but he still wanted to marry me, is he great ?haha!

Catherine,
对,还有养燕窝,都说咯,福州人真是《没得顶》的一族!

Yi Pian Yun said...

望阳,
你不认识我,怎么知道我真棒?哈哈!我,毅力是有的,要不然我怎能在忍辱偷生过日子(很想哭了)。我要享受人生,每一分,每一毛都是自己用苦力赚来的!谢谢你的支持, God bless you !

望阳 said...

干什么都要艰苦努力,都要坚持下去。
人生就这么简单,好好的享受吧!

Kenneth said...

Surely your husband made no mistake in marrying you. Life begins at 40, so why worry marrying at this age!

You must have earned his trust to manage your own money, haha!
"Behind every good man, there is an even better woman". Have you ever heard this?

Loo said...

“好男专找福州女”.
你有听过吗?

Yi Pian Yun said...

望阳, Kenneth, Loo,
哈哈, I have never diappointed him by giving birth to a healthy and beautiful daughter at the age of 41!He was also a nice husband .though he had no mt much money, he let us enjoy to the fullest.
Loo, 不要忘了好女是不嫁福州男的哦!

琪微 said...

Quote:

四十岁的女人,才真正懂得什么是爱,什么才是情,什么是人间最珍贵的情怀,什么才是自然最美的风景。。。。

四十岁的女人,是真女人!!

Loo said...

好女是不嫁福州男的?
不是吧!
那福州男不是娶不到好女咯???

Yi Pian Yun said...

Loo,
你是福州人吗?我应该说聪明女不嫁福州男,要做到半死的le!他们呀, 连一个杯都要老婆替他洗的啊!
琪薇,
说的也是,你看人家林青霞,也不是四十才嫁人的?

Loo said...

杯子都要老婆替他洗?
买一架 dishwasher 咯!方便多了。。。

Yi Pian Yun said...

问题是舍得买吗?老婆就是免费的佣人(三妹说的)

琪微 said...

夫妻是在你情我愿中组成了一个家,
两人地位是绝对平等的。

丽韵 said...

很多男人不知道感恩,不懂得领情。
老婆不是佣人啦!

Catherine said...

男人是不是都是很自私的?

Yi Pian Yun said...

琪薇,丽韵, catherine,
男人不但不懂感恩,领情,自私,还懒得要命。 有个好友,丈夫换裤子时的情况是: 拉链一拉,裤子下滑到地上,他就跨出那裤管,那两个裤管就站在那里等老婆来收拾,哈哈!有一次去了外坡回来,房里竟然站立了几对的裤管,哈哈哈!你看,懒到连自己的裤子都不要收拾!

KM's Corner 刻骨铭心 said...

I agreed with you.. my dad are really is a typical 福州人, same to me.. as both my mom and dad are 福州人. They really 刻苦耐劳 and 节俭.Especially my father, 100% from China. Haha..!

Yi Pian Yun said...

KMs corner,
That means your family must have a lot of lands la!I think you are not that thrifty already,right ?What about your wife ? Hockchew too ? If not , hahaha!

KM's Corner 刻骨铭心 said...

Nope.. she is not hokchew..I am not that stingy.. New generation of hokchew. 不要以一根竹竿打翻全船的福州男人啦!