Friday, April 17, 2009

丫头的生日




每天都在忙碌中过日子,时常忙到忘了当天的日期。今早在停车场刮固本时才惊觉今天是丫头的生日。于是送了一则“生日快乐”的短讯过去给她。她回答说要吃红糟面线加红鸡蛋wor。无奈远在学院,只好等回乡时才补吃吧!
十九年前的今日,是挨了开刀之苦才把丫头剖生出来的,那伤口至今有时还会隐隐作痛呢!剖产前,母亲看过通书,说四月十九日是好日子,适合剖腹生产,无奈当天是霹雳州苏丹生日,妇科医生不在公假动手术(除非是紧急的手术),只好选择在四月十七日剖生。身为人母,那一个会忘了孩子们的生日呢 ?因为这一天也就是她经历了激烈的阵痛才把孩子生下来的,她怎能忘了这一个受难日呢?据说阵痛(labour pain)是最痛的痛啊!
丫头,祝你生日快乐!
Withlove from mummy!

29 comments:

Loo said...

今日,你该是世界上最幸福的母亲,因为有个最爱你的丫头,哈哈!

琪微 said...

世上只有妈妈好
有妈的孩子像个宝
投进了妈妈的怀抱
幸福享不了。。。

Gemini said...

最痛的痛该是心痛吧!

Jack2 said...

可没忘了自己的生日吧?

望阳 said...

每天都在忙碌中过日子,得到的是无数的满足还是无数的金钱?

Kenneth said...

Is it always advisable to send greetings to your loved ones via sms? I personally believe that it's much better to give them a call, and convey the message. Who knows, your loved ones are yearning to hear your affectionate voice.

Yi Pian Yun said...

Loo,琪薇,
母爱是最无私的。
Gemini,
心痛不是labour pain 吧?你说的也是, 心痛是很难忍受的。
Jack2,
我时常都忘了自己的生日,只有老妈子会记得,她也会煮面线给我吃。
kenneth,
it is true that she may like to receive my call ,but she has lectures from morning till 5 pm, not convenient to call her when the lecture was on, so i sent sms to her first, she is also happy that I can remember her birthday,thanks 4 your idea.

Yi Pian Yun said...

望阳,
有满足也有金钱吧。满足是当那些小瓜们告诉我他们考试拿了多少又多少分(当然是高分啦)同时问我“老师,做么你那么厉害,知道会出这样的题目?(哈哈 )金钱当然也不少,要生活呀!

琪微 said...

细细长长的面线,象征延年益寿、长命百岁。

Jack2 said...

“知道会出这样的题目?”
哈哈。。。
老师退休了,不可能泄漏题目咯!

Yi Pian Yun said...

琪薇,
福州人就是喜欢在生日吃面线的习惯。
jack2,
当然不是漏题目啦,那是我的那手好戏呀!教了几十年的书,还不会spot题目,哪像话?哈哈!

Kenneth said...

Some teachers and tuition centres are providing tips on examination questions for a fee.

At this 'kiasu' age, many so-called elite parents are putting too much emphasis on scoring straight A's in exams.

Actually, our Malaysia's exam-oriented education system is the root cause of the problem and should take the blame.

Loo said...

知足的快乐教我忍受心痛!

小菲 said...

为什么大家都说世上只有妈妈好,
却不说世上只有爸爸好呢?

小菲 said...

世上只有妈妈好,那爸爸听了会想什么呢?

Yi Pian Yun said...

Kenneth,
I agree with u that elite parents are putting too much emphasis on scoring st. As and that our education system is the root of the problems. U know or not, there is a group of kiasu parents here,they forever looking 4 smart tutors who can turn their children into st. As scorer(as if teacher is a magician)Retired teacher like me already no more laku here, therefore I have to go kampong where there is no tuition centre.I have to use my technique to satisfy their demand too, 可悲吗?这是很现实的社会!
Loo,
不大明白你的意思。

Yi Pian Yun said...

小菲,
谢谢你的登入。从小我们只唱“世上只有妈妈好”,不知爸爸会有什么感想,问Loo和Kenneth看有什么意见。

Loo said...

曾经学过世上只有妈妈好,就是没有学过世上只有爸爸好。所以。。。。。, 我也不知道,哈哈!

Kenneth said...

Papa & mama are equally important. Both share equal parental responsibility & parental rights.
As children, we should feel duty-bound to show our filial affection to both of them.

Remember one of the super oldies

"Papa, he loves mama"?

Listen well while I tell you a story,
Of a boy and a girl in the spring,
As the first flower burst into glory,
And I heard, every bird start to sing.

Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa, (My poppet..)
Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa.

In a church, far away from the city,
On a morning in May, they were wed
And the bride's starry eyes looked so pretty,
That the world looking on smiled and said

Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa,
Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa.

Just a year from the day they were married,
Came a gift from girl to the boy,
Looking proud as a queen as she carried,
Such a wonderful bundle of joy.

Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa,
Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa.
(giggles n laughs while singing this verse)

Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa,
Papa, He loves Mama,
Mama, she loves Papa.

Yi Pian Yun said...

Hahaha, Kenneth, the lyrics of the super oldies are wonderful, I am sure 小菲 and Loo also like it.
will papa get jealous when mama also her boys and girls ?

Kenneth said...

Some men show their jealousy in a very strong way because that is their nature just as some men who do not show it at all.

Gemini said...

Can anyone please tell me what jealousy actually is? Is it a sign of true love or a sign of control and childishness?

望阳 said...

这是很现实的社会!一点也没错!
社会就是这样,我们改变不了别人,那我们就该改变自己,不断提高自己的职业能力吧。

琪微 said...

你改变不了别人,
你改变不了环境,
但你可以改变自已。

Yi Pian Yun said...

Gemini,
To me , I feel that jealousy is a sign of control and childishness more than true love,what say u ? Kenneth.
望阳,琪薇,
我非常同意你们的见解,我们是很难去改变别人,也不可能改变环境,只好改变自已了。你看,我是50年代的产物,怎能去改变两千年的产物呢?改变了自己之后,人也活得更快乐!

Kenneth said...

When you start feeling jealous, ask yourself one simple question : Is it more fear-based or more anger-based?

Don't listen to people who make you jealous.

琪微 said...

每个人都渴望改变生活,想生活得更成功,更起劲,更快乐、更有意义。

Loo said...

红鸡蛋呢?

Yi Pian Yun said...

丫头,
这是让你望梅止渴,等回乡时才煮给你吃,因此暂时没有红蛋!