Saturday, April 11, 2009

贫穷的富翁·VS富有的穷人

既然是富翁,怎么会贫穷?不错,他们是没有钱的富翁,因为他们的钱是不动产,全部现金都收在银行里,那就是不舍得消费;千省万省,只为了让银行存款的字数天天在增加,在他们来讲,看着那字数增加也许是个乐趣吧!他们是典型的守财奴,五分钱好像牛车轮那么大!你说他们有朋友吗咯?依我看,不但没有朋友,连六亲不认的都大有人在,他们只认$ 那会认人的?有人说,这些人死在棺材里都会伸出手来要钱!他们真正是穷得只剩下钱!
那么,既然有钱,为何是穷人?不错,他们有钱,只因为舍得消费,因而变了穷人。这些人没有产业,银行里即使有钱,字数也不会飙升。小姐时常就揶揄自己是富有的穷人。这些人多为乐观者,他们相信千金散尽还会来。他们肯定有许多朋友,这就是他们富有的地方。结果呢,大概是:钱不够用! 真是咎由自取,哈哈!

29 comments:

丽韵 said...

看着银行存款的字数天天在增加,
当然是个乐趣咯!

Catherine said...

有一些“贫穷的富人”总喜欢四处宣扬,争相夸耀!

Jack2 said...

穷人即使有钱,也舍不得消费,因为他总怕钱飞了,又回到穷日子去。

望阳 said...
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Kenneth said...

$ MONEY MONEY MONEY $

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world.
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world.

Loo said...

财富乃是一个人的身外之物,可以随时得到,
也可以随时失去。

望阳 said...

人生贵相知,何必金与钱 。。。。

Loo said...

富也好,穷也罢,能享受欢乐就改善情地欢乐,
不懂享受就是白痴。

Ching said...

I always think that we should live within our means, and happy with what we have. As long as our financial situation is comfortable, it is ok to spend a bit on clothes, entertainments, traveling and occasionally do a bit of charity. Of course we can’t compare ourselves to people driving big Benz, wearing branded clothes, using branded accessories etc.

大姐,我不是“住洋楼,养番狗”的那类人。我的人生道理就是,知足常乐,钱赚来就是要花,但要花的有价值。比如买衣服(不需要名牌),适当的娱乐,旅游,都会让我满足。偶尔做做善事,就是那么简单。可能因为我单身,没有孩子的负担,也不需要看任何人的脸色或批准,才可以买东西。听说有些女人,受高等教益,和丈夫资格同等,但买点东西都要问准太上老爷,自己做不了主,真是受不了。从另一角度来看,这可能是夫妻相处,夫妻恩爱的表现,女人生来,就要“三从四德,服从丈夫,是美德”。嘿嘿,我只是个1/4女人,不懂,也不想委屈自己,所以很难了解个中道理。
这只是个人愚见,请见谅!

泳冰 said...

Simply looking at one's bank balance
(especially with an enormous sum of money, plus a significant increase in its ever-growing amount) calms one's soul.

琪微 said...

Ching,

其实夫妻应该共同理财,坚持量入为出的持家原则,勤俭节约,精打细算。

Ching said...

琪微
Maybe you are right. But being single, I am not answerable to anybody. So I can’t understand people who can’t make a simple decision like buying a little bit of food stuff.

谢谢你的高见,因为单身,什么决定都是自己做的,我甚至可以在半小时内,决定买辆车,比买衣服还要快,嘿嘿,因为买衣服还要试穿。我已经年过半百,既然单身,也不需要理解夫妻之道了。现在只求菩萨保佑,平平安安,快快乐乐的过日子。

P/s;大姐,我们的"好朋友",可能是受了我的影响,这两天竟然一口气,买了几件衣服,哈哈,有前途。

Yi Pian Yun said...

谢谢大家的高见。
丽韵,泳冰,琪薇,
as far as one can calm ones soul, it is nothing wrong to look at the ever growing amount ,right?
kenneth,
is it the lyrics of a song ? very nice!
Catherine,
你说的也是,那些人四处宣扬,因为怕人家不知道他们是有钱的!
望阳,
很同意的的见解,有时讲钱会伤感情的。
Loo,
享受是要花费的,你说他是白痴,他才认为你是白痴呢!
Jack2,
千金散尽还复来呀!

Kenneth said...

$$ MONEY MONEY MONEY $$
-One of the hottest songs by Abba-

I work all night, I work all day, to pay the bills I have to pay
Ain't it sad
And still there never seems to be a single penny left for me
That's too bad
In my dreams I have a plan
If I got me a wealthy man
I wouldn't have to work at all, I'd fool around and have a ball

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world

A man like that is hard to find but I can't get him off my mind
Ain't it sad
And if he happens to be free I bet he wouldn't fancy me
That's too bad
So I must leave, I'll have to go
To Las Vegas or Monaco
And win a fortune in a game, my life will never be the same

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world ] x2

It's a rich man's world

望阳 said...

讲钱伤感情,无钱别谈情。

Yi Pian Yun said...

Ching.
怎么花费,见仁见智。我认为只要量力而为,值得花,也花得起,何乐而不为?我们自知坐不起benz, 但是坐ToyotaVios 也很不错了咯,对吗?我们不必穿名牌,只要有气质,穿什么都美,好像我今早穿了一件RM20 的衣服,羡慕到知音们要死,纷纷问我哪里买的wor!去旅行,也不必参豪华团,只要有志同道合的好友同行,也会有个愉快的行程,。对,女人无才便是德,嫁人了就要三从四德,这是老一辈的人说的。女人把整份薪水交给老公是不是夫妻恩爱的表现? 以下是我亲身见证的故事:
一个老邻居把整份薪水交给老公,连要买一包卫生棉还要向老公伸手。当时的卫生棉一包才RM0.75,她老公只给RM1.oo,连找回的RM0.25都要还给他,alamak!后来当她要求自理钱财时,为时已晚,夫妻反目成仇!因此,我一向来不同意把整份薪水交出!
其实我们的好朋友最有资格花钱,现在看开了吧!

望阳 said...

为什么人与人之间一讲到钱,就会反目成仇伤感情?金钱真的,真的,真的是那么重要吗?

望阳 said...

买了几件衣服, 有前途?
哈哈,真好笑。。。

丽韵 said...

每个人的用钱习惯是从小就形成的,不是可以轻易改变的。
Doing a charity deed is highly commended.

Yi Pian Yun said...

望阳,
您难道不懂:钱不是万能,但是没有钱万万不能,谁说钱不重要?讲钱伤感情,你说无钱莫谈情,对呀,爱情不会饮水饱啊!爱美是女人的天性,买几件美丽的衣服来扮美有什么好笑?

Ching said...

大姐,我想是你误会了望阳。他/她的意思说好笑,应该是指我说某人“买几件衣服有前途”而好笑。让我解释一下,为何我说有前途。因为某人天生节俭,又会车衣服,很少买衣服,之前也不怎么注重衣服穿的怎样,整齐就算了。最近,因为穿新衣,配搭的很好,整个人也亮丽了,所以我说她前途光明啦。对某人来讲,一下子买几件衣服,的确是大手笔,不象我们,买几件衣服,根本就是小儿科。

Just joking, don't take it seriously.开玩笑而已,别太认真。

还记得吗,大姐,我们在Bali Island,买到钱不够用,要用马币,美金和刷卡。真疯狂。

Yi Pian Yun said...

谁说我不记的?好彩我忘了带信用卡去,省了不少钱,我还记得回来后还你几百零吉呢,疯狂是疯狂了一点,但那是乐趣呀!我总觉得压力越大,越爱购物来解压!

望阳 said...

对了,Ching! 我是指你说某人“买几件衣服有前途”而好笑。
Very clever you!

泳冰 said...

好羡慕你们,不断地去旅游,以购物方式来解压!

Loo said...

减缓压力,早上起床后,对自己说一声 :
你要快乐,你要幸福!

Yi Pian Yun said...

望阳,
对不起啊,误解了你的意思,其实我也不清楚Ching说的有前途,经她解释才清楚她的用意,那位好朋友其实长得美人儿一个,只是太过节俭了,让她看起来比实际年龄老。
泳冰,
不用羡慕,你也是可以的!
Loo某
说的时候,要对着镜子吗?(好像谋高官夫人),哈哈哈!我最快乐的时候该是拜五的evening吧!

泳冰 said...

去旅游,去购物, 是要有时间和金钱的呀!
我们可不是orang kaya呢。。。

Ching said...

泳冰

不一定是orang kaya 才去旅行的。我们应该是比上不足,比下有余。只要活的开心,可能比富有的人更快乐。我们也认识很多经济状况不错的人,比我还好,但他们舍不得和我们去旅游,认为太贵,不值得。

Yi Pian Yun said...

泳冰,
Ching说的也真,未必是orang kaya 才有机会的,希望你也能像我们一样潇洒!